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Love Is Strong Spiritual Warfare

One morning, I walked into the Women’s Bible Study, and they were having a potluck that no one had told me about! Maybe I was being overly sensitive, but I was very offended.

The Bible study teacher recognized that I was upset, and the next time I saw her, she gave me an index card with some Scripture references. She probably had no idea that it would change my life. As I opened my heart to God’s Word, something wonderful happened! The Truth set me free! These are the Scriptures:

“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to OVERLOOK AN OFFENSE.” Proverbs 19:11 (emphasis mine)

“He who covers over an offense promotes love…” Proverbs 17:9a

“A fool shows his annoyance at once, but a prudent man overlooks an insult.” Proverbs 12:16 (emphasis mine)

This happened to me over 30 years ago. The devil has used the same tactics since the beginning of time. He has used it on me. He will use it on you. 

Read about David in 1 Samuel 17:28-33 below. Notice that David had to overlook the offenses thrown at him before he could kill the giant. Satan tried to stop God’s plan for David, but he couldn’t do it because David overlooked the offense.

“When Eliab, David’s oldest brother, heard him speaking with the men, he burned with anger at him and asked, “Why have you come down here? And with whom did you leave those few sheep in the wilderness? I know how conceited you are and how wicked your heart is; you came down only to watch the battle.”

“Now what have I done?” said David. “Can’t I even speak?”  He then turned away to someone else and brought up the same matter, and the men answered him as before.  What David said was overheard and reported to Saul, and Saul sent for him.

David said to Saul, “Let no one lose heart on account of this Philistine; your servant will go and fight him.”

Saul replied, “You are not able to go out against this Philistine and fight him; you are only a young man, and he has been a warrior from his youth.”

David didn’t get angry and sulk. Instead, he refused to be offended.

Over the years, God has continued to reveal to me how powerful it is to walk in love, and that means overlooking offenses.

  “(Love) is not rude; it is not self-seeking, it is not provoked [nor overly sensitive and easily angered]; it does not take into account a wrong endured. 1 Corinthians 13:5 AMP

The devil will send offenses our way, but when we choose God’s way and walk in love, Satan’s attack will not prevail.

Has anyone ever offended you? Insulted you? Put you down? If so, consider this: Love is strong spiritual warfare!

Consider this:

“To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.

“He committed no sin,
    and no deceit was found in his mouth.”

When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 1 Peter 2:21-23

Following Jesus and walking in love is spiritual warfare. When we love others, we are defeating Satan and his dirty schemes. This is how we wield the Sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God!

Addendum: Recently, I ran into my former Bible Study teacher at Panera Bread. I went over to her and told her how what she did that day had changed my life. I hope it encouraged her. (She may not even remember it.) Sometimes, God doesn’t reveal the result of our obedience. For JoAnn, it came over three decades later.

In His Love, Cindy

To learn more about Jesus, read Who Is Jesus? A message for the Skeptic

All Scriptures from NIV unless otherwise noted

Photo by Raychan on Unsplash

 

12 thoughts on “Love Is Strong Spiritual Warfare”

  1. Thank you so much for sharing Cindy! I needed to read this today. I spent the morning telling God about how I didn’t know what to do and to help me. Then I saw this.

    Love really is spiritual warfare and I’m grateful for the reminder.

    Thank you once again

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  2. Offence is the most “sleekit” (sly) weapon of our enemy Satan; he slips it into our life and conversations that we may be tripped in our walk with our brethren and most importantly with our Father God. I saw this happen to me recently, but I am thankful for His Spirit shining a light on the Deil’s (Devil’s) sleekit ways. Thank you for sharing this post today Cindy. God bless you today my friend and sister 🙏

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    1. Alan, This truth sets us free from one of Satan’s favorite tricks. Like all of God’s Word, the Truth sets us free and Satan’s scheme loses its power! God bless you today, dear friend and brother! 🙏

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  3. Thank you for this reminder. I love how perfect God’s timing is in our lives. I’ve been battling with loving those (within the church) who have deeply hurt me. I needed to see this today. Thank you for sharing and being obedient to what God placed on your heart. He’s certainly using you to help and encourage me. 😊

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    1. I am so glad that you were encouraged! Although we must forgive and refuse to be offended, I don’t believe we have to trust someone who is not worthy of our trust. Some people are intentionally mean. To trust them is to invite their attacks. Do you agree?

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  4. This was such a needed reminder. I think many people imagine spiritual warfare only through dramatic battles, but often it happens quietly in the heart in the choice to forgive, to not retaliate, to overlook offense, and to continue walking in love when pride wants the opposite. Your connection between Christ’s response during suffering and our daily interactions was powerful. The line about love being “strong spiritual warfare” stayed with me because it reveals how deeply the enemy tries to divide through resentment and hurt. Thank you for pointing readers back to the example of Jesus and showing that love is not weakness, but obedience and spiritual strength.

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    1. Rosie, Thank you for your encouraging message. Just think about how the devil tries to cause Christians to fight one another, talk about others, criticizing them, and finding fault with what they do. When we don’t fall for it, we are fighting the enemy! God bless you, today!

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