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What True Discipleship Really Means

Many churches have shifted their focus from loving God and loving others to a “me-centered gospel.” That is sure to attract the world and naive believers. After all, humans are naturally self-centered.

“There is nothing more irreligious than self-absorbed religion.”
― J.I. Packer

“The me-centered gospel makes a subtle shift at its foundation about what—rather, who—is at the center of the gospel message. Well, it seems subtle. It’s actually a fundamental, seismic relocation. Jesus is removed from the center and is replaced by…you.” Jim Thomson, Pastor and Missionary, from his book Leadership on the Brink

You will see this from churches that advertise Your Best Life Now and teach that God wants you to financially prosper. In other words, it’s all about what God can do for me as if He is some kind of Genie in the sky. But this is in direct opposition to what Jesus said. In Luke 14, Jesus explains what it means to become His disciple. For many years, I skipped over these verses thinking they were too difficult to understand. Let’s examine them now.

26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple. 27 And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.

28 “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’

31 “Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Won’t he first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? 32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.

34 “Salt is good, but if it loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? 35 It is fit neither for the soil nor for the manure pile; it is thrown out.”

“Whoever has ears to hear, let them hear.” Luke 14:26-35

In other words, we must make Christ our first priority, even over family, wealth, and even our own life. Being a disciple is not about what we can get if we say a sinner’s prayer. It’s about being willing to give all to Him.

Some Examples to Consider:

(vs. 26) Did you know that when a Muslim follows Jesus, his family will reject him or may even kill him? When Jesus said, “hate your father and mother” He means that He is above everyone, even family. Nabeel Qureshi describes his experience when he converted from Islam to Christianity in his book, Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus. Nabeel’s mother and father, whom he respected and loved were devastated by his conversion. For the first time, I understood this verse.

(vs. 27) Many of the original disciples lost their lives, being crucified for their faith. Even today, many Christians are persecuted around the world and are viciously slaughtered. In 2023, 8,000 Christians were massacred in Nigeria! When you are robbed, beaten, and murdered for your faith in Jesus – that’s Christian persecution! You may not hear about it in the news, but it happens much more than you think.

(vs. 33) This does not mean we must become penniless, but we must hold all that we have with open hands, willing to give what the Lord asks us to give.

Jesus said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.” Luke 9:23

In His Love, Cindy

All Scripture is from the NIV unless stated otherwise.

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The Power of God’s Love: Insights from Lamentations 3:21-24

Verses for Meditation, 7/3/25

Israel had been decimated by Assyrian armies… Judah’s elite (including Daniel and his three Hebrew friends) had been deported to Babylon… The temple was obliterated, the walls of the city flattened. (Jeremiah Study Bible Notes)

Yet amid the devastation, the writer of Lamentations says,

“Yet this I call to mind
    and therefore I have hope:  Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail.
 They are new every morning;
    great is your faithfulness.
 I say to myself, “The Lord is my portion;
    therefore I will wait for him.”” Lamentations 3:21-24

In His Love, Cindy

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Living Worthy: Insights from Colossians 1:9-12

1-minute read for Friday, 6/27/25

“We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light.” Colossians 1:9b-12 NIV

In His Love, Cindy

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Rediscovering Your First Love in Faith

1-minute read for Monday, 6/23/25

” I want you to trust me in your times of trouble, so I can rescue you and you can give me glory.” Psalm 50:15 TLB

Note: This is one of the first verses I ever underlined in my Bible decades ago. Do you remember reading a promise in the Bible that you had never read before? It was thrilling! Maybe this is what the book of Revelation is referring to as “your first love”: The thrill of getting to know God through His Word.

“But I have this against you, that you have left your first love.” Revelation 2:4 NASB

What do you think?

In His Love, Cindy

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Holding to Jesus’ Teachings: A Path to Truth

Sunday’s Memory Verse, 6/22/25

Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples.  Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31-32 (emphasis mine) Read full chapter

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Finding Hope: A Reflection on Psalm 130

1-minute read for Friday, 6/20/25

“I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits,
    and in his word I put my hope.
I wait for the Lord
    more than watchmen wait for the morning,
    more than watchmen wait for the morning.” Psalm 130:5-6 NIV (emphasis mine)

Commentary: The word hope in our present thinking most often carries the idea of wishful thinking, but in Biblical thought, hope was synonymous with certainty. (Jeremiah Study Bible Notes)

In His Love, Cindy

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Understanding ‘In Jesus’ Name’: What It Truly Means

Since childhood, I have always ended my prayers with the words, in Jesus’ name, Amen. That’s how I learned to pray. But recently, the question has been on my mind, What does it mean? The phrase “in Jesus’ name” is not just something we tack on at the end of our prayer. I discovered that these words mean something important.

What did Jesus say about praying in His name?

“And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.” John 13-14

When our requests, made in the name of His Son, further God’s purposes and kingdom, God will act on our behalf, and in the end the Father will be “glorified in the Son”. 

 “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you.” John 15:16

“In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Very truly I tell you, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive, and your joy will be complete.” John 16:23-24

It’s Like This

In the old American West, before the days of credit cards, a shopkeeper would maintain a ledger book recording the activities of each customer’s account and the amount owed. The business owner knew his customers well and the work in which they were involved. A customer would at times send others to the shop for him to make purchases and bring back materials needed for his home or business. Those sent in the customer’s stead (e.g., his children) would be able to receive the goods “in the name of” the account owner. But, if they tried to purchase things not in line with what the shopkeeper knew the customer needed or wanted, the purchase would be denied.

Coming to God in Jesus’ name is similar. Jesus holds the account, and we are welcome to come to the Father in Jesus’ name to receive what we need. The Father willingly grants our requests because of Jesus’ standing.

Of course, if we are asking for things that we don’t need or that are contrary to the character or will of Christ, then we cannot expect to receive those things. (See James 4:3) Instead, to pray in Jesus’ name means that we pray for what will glorify God, and for His will to be done. It means we pray like Jesus would pray.

And finally, we must remember that God’s name is holy. The Bible has a lot to say about His name. When Jesus taught His disciples to pray, He said,

“This, then, is how you should pray:
‘Our Father in heaven,
hallowed be your name …'” Matthew 6:9

Hallowed be thy name – The word “hallowed” means to render or pronounce holy… and the meaning of this petition is, “Let thy name be celebrated, venerated, and esteemed as holy everywhere, and receive from all people proper honor.” (Barnes Notes on the Bible)

One commentator writes that in Jesus’ name“ means “For Your glory, in honor of Your purposes, and according to Your will I pray…Amen.”  (Daniel Henderson.)

As we end our prayers with the words, “in Jesus’ name“, may it be with understanding, reverence, and a heart that seeks the glory of God.

In His Love, Cindy

All Scripture is from the NIV unless stated otherwise.

Sources: GotQuestions.org

Pastor Daniel Henderson

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Managing Anger

1-minute read for Tuesday, 6/10/25

“In your anger do not sin”: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.” Ephesians 4:26-27 NIV Read full chapter

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Consider Carefully How You Listen

1-minute read for Monday, 6/9/25

“No one lights a lamp and hides it in a clay jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, they put it on a stand, so that those who come in can see the light. 17 For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out into the open. 18 Therefore consider carefully how you listen. Whoever has will be given more; whoever does not have, even what they think they have will be taken from them.” Luke 8:16-18 NIV Read full chapter

Jeremiah Study Bible Notes: If people choose to meditate deeply on His words, along with a settled determination to put them into practice, then God will open their minds to even more of His truth. But if they listen only to be entertained or to find fault – giving only careless attention to it – then even what they think they understand will be taken from them.

In His Love, Cindy

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Serving with Passion: A Biblical Perspective

1-minute read for Sunday, 6/8/25

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters,  since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.” Colossians 3:23-24 NIV

In His Love, Cindy

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