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How to Handle Backlash for Your Beliefs

(Previously titled Speaking the Truth Might Be Met With Anger)

It was a rough week! I was unprepared for the backlash I would receive when I shared with a fellow Christian my belief that a certain teaching was unBiblical. Instead of engaging in a dialogue, she attacked my character. I wasn’t expecting that.

Stating your beliefs can cause a torrent of judgment to rain down on your head when someone doesn’t like your view. It can feel traumatic, even when you know the accusations aren’t true. A vicious attack on your character can quickly cause you to grow weary and lose heart.

If this happens to you, the first thing you must do is PRAY. Next, read your Bible to see what God says about it. These are some verses the Lord brought to mind:

Paul said, “I care very little if I am judged by you or any human court; indeed, I do not even judge myself. My conscience is clear, but that does not make me innocent. It is the Lord who judges me. Therefore judge nothing before the appointed time; wait until the Lord comes. He will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart.” 1 Corinthians 4:3-5 NIV

“Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand.” Romans 14:4 NIV

“Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:11-12 NIV

The Bible says we are to “speak the truth in love”. (Ephesians 4:15)

This means that we must speak the truth with gentleness because we love one another.

Some of you are standing against false beliefs that will bring attacks against you, too. Subjects like abortion, transgender ideology, and even doctrinal differences can elicit a strong response. Be strong! The fight for Truth is a spiritual battle.

If you are being judged unfairly, you’re in good company. Jesus was falsely accused of many things including blasphemy, inciting rebellion, violating the Sabbath law (by healing on the Sabbath); threatening to destroy the Jewish Temple; practicing sorcery, and exorcising people by the power of demons.

To the Galatians the Apostle Paul said,

“Have I now become your enemy by telling you the truth?” Galatians 4:16 NIV

Be strong and courageous! You are not alone!

“Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.” Hebrews 12:1-3 NIV (emphasis mine)

Comment from Bereancrossroads:

“Ad hominem and even abusive ad hominem fallacious attacks are used by people who have no logical arguments. Quite common these days. The Bible says for us to come and reason together and we can do that from the Scripture especially among brethren. If the person does not want to, then we pray for that individual.

Our worth is not what people say or do to us but who we are in Christ Jesus! 😀✝️✝️✝️📖🙏”

(An ad hominem attack is an argument that attacks the person making a statement instead of the statement itself.) 

In His Love, Cindy

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Friday’s Verse, 8/9/24

“How amazing are the deeds of the Lord!
    All who delight in him should ponder them.
Everything he does reveals his glory and majesty.
    His righteousness never fails.” Psalm 111:2-3 NLT

In His Love, Cindy

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Verses for Meditation, 8/8/24

“I love the Lord because he hears my voice
    and my prayer for mercy.
Because he bends down to listen,
    I will pray as long as I have breath!” Psalm 116:1-2 NLT

In His Love, Cindy

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Quote of the Week, 8/7/24

God does not bring comfort when challenge is what we need. God’s Word is designed to bring about spiritual growth, not economic prosperity.”

MICHAEL MCINTYRE, PASTOR WESLEY UNITED METHODIST CHURCH, SPRINGFIELD, MO

In His Love, Cindy

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Tuesday’s Verse, 8/6/24

“O Lord, what a variety of things you have made!
    In wisdom you have made them all.
    The earth is full of your creatures.” Psalm 104:24 NLT

In His Love, Cindy

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Monday’s Verse, 8/5/24

“Blessed are those who fear the Lord, who find great delight in his commands. Their children will be mighty in the land;” Psalm 112:1-2 NIV

In His Love, Cindy

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Sunday’s Memory Verse, 8/4/24

“But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 3:13-14 NIV (emphasis mine)

In His Love, Cindy

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Abortion Or Healthcare?

Over the next few months leading up to the election, you may notice an increase in ads for “reproductive rights”. “Reproductive rights” is an euphemism for abortion. There are many euphemisms for abortion including women’s rights, women’s healthcare, reproductive choice, pro-choice, and others.

Using these euphemisms, abortion advocates redirect the conversation away from the child and to the child’s mother—or, as they prefer to say, “the woman.”

But the fact is, we’re really talking about abortion, which is the taking of a human life while in the mother’s womb. Abortion rights activists claim the unborn fetus is not a baby, but we all know that it is a baby and the “person with a capacity for pregnancy” is the mother.

They can change the language all they want, but it doesn’t change the reality.

A euphemism is a mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant.

Over time, the use of euphemisms can, and have, changed society’s view on abortion. It is a deception that seeks to hide the reality of murdering a child and cloaks that murder in a positive light.

It isn’t the worst thing in the world to have a baby you didn’t plan on. The worst thing in the world is to kill that baby.

But don’t expect pro-abortion activists to fight for the right to kill your baby. That sounds too harsh. And it is.

These linguistic sleights of hand work. Abortion advocates themselves have been and remain deceived—seduced even—by these very euphemisms. They sincerely believe the moral claims they assume in this way of speaking.

“Those responsible for changing the language have changed the way people think and believe and act.” Trent Hunter, Aborion or Feticide: Words Matter (I encourage you to read this excellent article.)

“Woe to those who call evil good and good evil.” Isaiah 5:20 NIV

“For You created my innermost parts;
You wove me in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to You, because I am awesomely and wonderfully made;” Psalm 139:13-14 NIV

So as you watch TV or scroll social media, take note of the deception being used to mislead the public into supporting the murder of babies in the mother’s womb. Do not be deceived by euphemisms.

In His Love, Cindy

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Sources:

C-SPAN

Trent Hunter, Aborion or Feticide: Words Matter

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Special Prayer Request

Our sister in Christ, Eileen, says she has lost all hope. I am very concerned about her.

She says, “Yes I have prayed, I have dropped to my knees, I have cried myself to sleep and yet nothing has changed. I have followed Christ all my life and yet all of this has come about for me and my daughters.”  Continued HERE.

Please pray for her and stand in the gap for her. She is overwhelmed right now and desperately needs our support, encouragement, and prayers.

“…pray for one another…” James 5:16

In His Love, Cindy

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Friday’s Verse, 8/2/24

“And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.” Romans 8:27 NIV 

In His Love, Cindy

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