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Do You Long for Men’s Approval?

Reflection for Tuesday, 5/5/26

“We wrestle with our natural inclinations— … our longing for approval…”

Bruce Cooper

I know this is true because I wrestle with it myself. I also know that recognition (public approval) often leads to pride. And we all know what pride leads to.

I saw this firsthand when I was in a Word of Faith church. When I became a women’s conference speaker, those around me began to make me feel special and important. At a conference where I was speaking, one woman offered to carry my Bible, purse, and notes around for me. I must be important!

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” Proverbs 16:18 NIV

James and John asked Jesus if they could sit on His right and left in Heaven. I think they longed for approval and recognition. Jesus responded by saying,

“… whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all.” Mark 10:43-44 NIV

Jesus also said, “The greatest among you will be your servant. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

So I pray, “Create in me a pure heart, O God …” (Psalm 51:10 NIV) “Direct my footsteps according to your word; let no sin rule over me.” (Psalm 119:133 NIV)

In His Love, Cindy

To learn more about Jesus, read Who Is Jesus? A message for the Skeptic

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12 thoughts on “Do You Long for Men’s Approval?”

    1. Like Bruce said, to long for approval is natural, (but it isn’t beneficial). If we feel really confident in ourselves, we don’t rely on the Lord. It is when we are weak that we are strong! God bless you today, Anna!

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  1. A valuable reminder for us all Cindy – thank you! I love being able to serve others in our fellowship, even in simple tasks. The blessings of God touch everyone whether served or serving. God bless you today my friend and sister 🙏

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